...Impulsive (sort-of)
So, I sometimes resist change. Quite often, I am comfortable with the status quo. The unknown can freak me out. However, I have learned or rather, am learning that it is worth it to do the impulsive thing once in a while.
Let me explain.
Have you ever had the urge to compliment someone on how they looked and resisted giving the compliment? I know I have.
I used to feel weird about giving out those compliments. But, one day I decided I was being silly. What have I got to lose? Will someone get mad at me for giving them a compliment about how they look?
How about if I tell them they are doing their work well?
Will they complain when I help them by putting away their grocery cart?
What if I pick up some garbage as I walk down the road-without anyone asking me to?
How about if I buy a meal for that person, instead of just giving her money so she can buy a 'pop'?
There a million little things that a person can do to make the world a little bit better place. I think it's a good thing for Little Man and Baby B to see me caring about the world around me, without having any expectations to 'get' anything back in return.
Little things.
Some people may think it an odd, but I am going to try to be a little more 'impulsive' from now on.
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Spontaneity sure has its perks. It certainly is a good thing to teach one's children! Good luck!
ReplyDeleteThanks. It's not always in my nature to be spontaneous, I can get bogged down by my list of things to do. But I think having a balance is good and I want my kids to know they are more important than my list. :)
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